Keep The Jewish Conversation Alive
Disagreement about Israel is tearing Jewish communities apart. But arguing has always been one of the Jewish people’s greatest strengths. Help communities reclaim it and remain whole.
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It starts at the kitchen table
At a Shabbat table somewhere in North America, one child is planning to make aliyah while another has just returned from a protest for Palestine.
Their parents love them both. Their communities shaped them both.
And suddenly, the table that once held everyone is not sure how to hold this difference.
Multiply that table by thousands. This is the heartbreak threatening Jewish life right now.
The divide is widening
Israel's standing in public opinion has fallen to a historic low. For the first time in 25 years of tracking, Americans no longer sympathize more with Israel than with the Palestinians, and among those under 35, a majority now sympathize more with the Palestinians. (Gallup, 2026)
These numbers are a picture of our communal future. In a few years, these young adults will be the parents, teachers, clergy, board members, and donors shaping Jewish life. They have questions, and feel anger, grief, and alienation around Israel. Some already feel that the Jewish community has no place for them.
If communities respond by sidelining, expelling, or silencing them, we will not solve the problem. We will deepen it.
Disagreement is the tradition
The Jewish people have survived for thousands of years not because we agreed, but because we argued and remained responsible for one another. Disagreement is not a threat to Jewish life. It is one of its deepest inheritances.
What we are at risk of losing is not the argument itself, but the ability to argue without contempt and exile.
For the Sake of Argument exists to strengthen the sacred tradition of arguing for the sake of heaven. We train leaders, educators, and communities to move toward the conversations we tend to avoid.
Our goal isn’t to force agreement, but to build understanding and stay in relationship, the way we have for centuries.
A model that works
1,000+ educators and communal leaders trained every year
10,000+ reached each year through materials in classrooms, camps, congregations, and on campus
Independent research shows participants leave feeling closer to the people with whom they disagree
For the Sake of Argument sits at the intersection this moment requires: Israel education, communal leadership, educational practice, facilitation, and Jewish thought. Independent and tested across hundreds of rooms, we help communities address a challenge that does not fit neatly into any one funding category.
What your gift changes
A gift to For the Sake of Argument changes what happens at the moment a community would otherwise go silent, split, or push someone out.
It means parents have tools for navigating arguments at the Shabbat table. It means a synagogue can address disagreement, shame, fear, and anger without creating an ideological litmus test for belonging. It means a young Jew who feels pushed out can maintain relationships with the community that shaped their identity.
And because For the Sake of Argument works through the people who shape Jewish life — spiritual leaders, educators, organizational consultants, and communal professionals — every gift reaches far beyond the room in which it begins. One conversation becomes a culture, and a culture holds a community together.
You are helping the Jewish people reclaim one of its oldest, greatest strengths: the ability to argue fiercely, stay together, and remain whole.
Every gift helps keep the Jewish conversation alive in one more community.
Keeps the conversation open
Puts digital tools in more hands
Provides a school or community kit packed with practical discussion guides and educational tools
Supports printings of For the Sake of Argument’s forthcoming book
Subsidizes training for an educator, rabbi, lay leader, or communal professional
Sponsors the For the Sake of Argument experience for an entire team of educators and leaders
Expands our reach at the national level through new resources, training cohorts, impact research, public programs, and more

Want to make a larger commitment, or give in another way?
Contact Abi Dauber Sterne at abi@forthesakeofargument.org


